OWNERSH*T - move from blame to bliss, victim to warrior, fear to love
Hi friend! I am writing my first book, OWNERSH*T. I am so dang excited to share it with you because the practice of owning my shit has changed my life. Below is a brief description of what’s to come in my book. I would love your feedback. Thanks! Shooting to have it completed by end of April. ❤️✨
OWNERSH*T - move from blame to bliss, victim to warrior, fear to love
Over and over again I have thrown myself into the bottomless shit pit of victimhood when things didn’t go the way I thought they should go.
I have blamed a plethora of people in my life for the shitty things that have happened to me.
I blamed my mother for not loving me “right” and unleashing an eighteen-year-old girl into the world with little to no self-esteem whose main focus was drinking and making out. I was a victim of my sister for “cutting me off” and talking bad about me to everyone (except me) who would listen as I begged her year after year to share what I did and allow me to apologize. I stayed in a dying then toxic marriage because I held the belief that I would be with my man until the day one of us died. That belief almost killed both of us.
I have also practiced OWNERSH*T a.k.a. own your shit. OWNERSH*T gave this baby her power back and damn I love being the CEO of my life! Leigh Koechner - Life Boss. I now choose how I navigate the shit piles of my life whilst taking time to smell the roses.
Let’s see if the OWNERSH*T practice is for you…
Are you blaming someone because you are a hot mess?
Are you sick of everyone around you acting like a dick?
Are you stained with the splatters of regret?
If you answered yes to one of these, OWNERSH*T is for you!
Have you had an amazing orgasm lately?
Do you laugh your ass off so hard that you may worry a little pee might pop out?
Have you done something exhilarating that made your heart skip a beat today?
If you said no to one of these, OWNERSH*T is for you!
We all come to the planet with a bald head, no teeth, and a diaper holding our shit. And if we are lucky, we go out with a bald head, no teeth, and a diaper holding our shit. It’s what we do with our shit in between those moments that matter.
Do you want to know your future? I have a crystal ball. Do you want to see? Do you dare? Look at your life right now and do nothing differently. Tada! Welcome to your future. Do you like what you see? If not, something has to shift to create a new experience. There is only one sexy beast on the planet who can shift your life, YOU!
We aren’t here long. Are you ready to stop your negative story, quit crying, and take control of your life? Say, YES! And enroll yourself in the OWNERSH*T academy. Some big shit is about to go down and things are going to get messy. And guess what? That’s a good thing! Why? Because there is magic in your mess.
It’s time to let go of regret and shift your fear to love as you create more space for the freedom and miracles that are coming. Right now in this very moment, commit to living a fully owned life. I have and I will be fulfilled watching the messy wild colorful mark I made on this planet fade away with my last breath. This is one of the gifts OWNERSH*T gives you. You are about to see yourself and the world in a sexy new-fashioned way.
There are six buttresses of OWNERSH*T. Self-love is at the top of the list. Nothing sticks if you don’t know you are worthy to receive it.
The 6 Buttresses of OWNERSH*T
Love Yourself Damn It! Shit and All
To Thine Own Shit Be True
Set down, Unpack, Explore, and Sort Your Shit Sack
Flush your shit. Reframe, Replace, Repeat
The Magic in the Messy Shit
Celebrate the Good Shit
Now you know the magic ingredient in life’s happiness sauce - OWNERSH*T - the new way of exploring your thoughts, past experiences, people around you, how you treat yourself, and how you tell others to treat you with a child-like curiosity. Shimmy out of your comfort zone, jump over the uncomfort zone, then swan dive face first into the great unknown zone of OWNERSH*T. Welcome to the most impactful choice you will make while on this planet.
Socrates uttered, “The unexamined life is not worth living.” In today’s terms, I believe he may phrase it - “Owning one’s shit is examining one’s life and this is a life worth living”.
It's not your parents, your lover, your job, the economy, the president,
an argument, or your family that is to blame or celebrate. It's you.
You see the world as you feel about yourself and you tell others how to treat you.
Own your shit and change your life.
-Leigh Koechner